Guys - complicated , yet , simple
Hey , this post is specially dedicated to all the guys in this world . You read about us , u study about us , u do research on us , u hate us , yet , u can’t live without us coz u’ll be , GAY ~! Wahahahaha ~!
Ok , let’s start this ‘TheEnG’ . What we really want . You know what ? We want a better life , cuz everyone deserve a better life . Everyone deserves the BEST , so , y should we settle for the second BEST ? The defination of the ‘ BEST ‘ , everygirl has a different point of looking at which guy is better . But one thing for sure , they have their own reason why they pick their choice of guy among so many others . If a girl complains bout her bf ‘ my bf is a piece of shit ‘ = girl , u are a pain in the ass n u ashame all girls . No ? U don’t agree ? I tell u why now . If he’s that bad ( not to blame u for accepting him as ur bf cuz its allowed to make mistakes ) , then why r u still with him . There’s no need to scream n shout at your bf , just dump him lah . You think u r a big girl having a bf already but u cant handle your own relationship ah ? Dont say someone is bad n yet still stay with him . If he’s bad n u wanna stay , SHUT UP ~! Switch place , y if ur bf tells u he love u then behind u , he went n tell all his friends u were a piece of shit . Ever thought of that ? People wont pity you if u always complain that ur partner is not good enough , relationship are between two people , it’s YOU who know what’s best for yourself and what’s not .
How to define a GOOD & BAD guy . The answer : NO DEFINATION . My elaboration starts …… This guy A , falls in love with this girl X . They went out n were very happy . After few months , guy A found out that girl X were very self centered , selfish , not understanding , bad tempered n always likes to raise her voice on him in front of the friends so he try to talk things out . X shout shout at him n say ‘ u dun like then we break up lah , no need to talk crap here . u duno how to cherish me i can get a guy who know how ‘ Guy A tried his best but the girl just left him . Guy A met Girl Y , they fell in love almost immediatly . Girl X came back begging n crying , Guy A says ‘ Sorry , it’s too late . I have had a gf already ‘ Girl X went telling everyone around this guy is BAD , but Girl Y thinks guy A is sweet . So , the point is , there’s no defination of GOOD guy n BAD guy . Just that when did the relationship comes in , what stage does the relationship leads to , n where does the relationship hit on matters n take in count . You leave a realationship , learn from the mistakes we had made . Don’t say we didnt make any mistakes , coz it takes two hands to clap . Learn n dont repeat the mistake again . You will have a better relationship ahead ……. and i hoped that it’ll last ……..
January 11th, 2006 at 11:11 am
totally agreed… about relationship ..i have only 1 experience.. i was as “guyA” one day i met this gal L.. she is a bit small build..while guyA was big.. 180cm vs 157cm.. but love still develop between them.. the relationship go on for about a year.. den gal L make a decision to go singapore for working.. and somehow guy A agreed.. and rent a room to stay together.. at that time guy A was still studying in SG.. things went on for 3 months.. he fetch her home everday… do everything together.. but somehow things become bad when after 3 month, at some time b4 the gal said ” i will love u forever and if we cant be together forever i will not let u see me again” so the break up really occur.. after 3 month in SG.. until now the guy still dunno why gal L wanted a break up.. he was still looking for her until today although love can be said gone.. but still care as a frenz… guy A is not as fortunate like guy in this forum… the next gal never come .. he was still waiting… he promised will do his best to try understand more bout gal…until today he was still thinking wad went wrong..
January 19th, 2006 at 5:09 pm
I dun’t support on and off relationship, this is like a children playing cat and mouse game…cat catch the mouse, then let it go again and again…Dunt choose guy who goes after for fame and girl pretty look, sexy body, dun’t look for guy for money and charming…in a relationship, there is no GOOD or BAD guy, only have the RIGHT guy…different ppl, different need and opinion…if u need someone opinion to choose for the right lover, then dun’t accept it, coz if ur not confidence enough to choose over ur own happiness, then no one else can.
It only take few seconds to say I LOVE YOU, but forever lifetime to treasure it. So to girl or guy, when u say it, u have to mean it and treasure it all the time…as time pass by, no one know what will happen to us in the future.